Many times In life I have heard people say that they are:  ”open to the process”,

I’ve observed however, that this is unless of course they do not get the “process” they were expecting.

Hmm… We either have faith or we don’t- no?

As Yoda said:

“do or do not… there is no TRY”

Are you committed to swimming in the shallow end of the pool or are you ready to dive under and see the underworld of this surface life.. this “gesture” life?

It’s ok if the answer is no. But if the answer is YES – it kind of defeats the whole wild ride experience to change your mind when you bump up against the things that scare you, provoke you, anger you, outrage you.

When my son is losing a board game he says “I don’t want to play anymore” or “This is not fun!”

This is a fine response for a child…

As adults we often times are saying the same thing when we pull out of a commitment or reneg on an agreement we’ve made.

When we don’t get the results we were expecting…

When we don’t like what we see….

What we don’t hear when we don’t like what is being said…